This book was a labor of love to create in 2019, and I am immensely proud of what I accomplished. It was a cathartic and healing journey after Layla died.
However, it’s important to me to share how my outlook has changed since I wrote this book, since the book is very faith-focused. Do I still have faith? Yes, absolutely. Is that something I focus on when I’m telling Layla’s story now? Nope.
Here’s why: Grief and loss impact everyone. And no matter what you believe, it’s something you have to figure out how to get through (not over) every day. I don’t want my faith to limit who might find healing in knowing they are not alone in what they are feeling. We’re all in this life together – no matter what you believe or where you come from. Everyone matters.
Given the chance to write it again, I would. My faith was a huge part of what got me through that year and every day since she left us, but I’d focus more on healing from grief and finding joy in the midst of it.
I think we can all agree that when life is good, everything seems easy. When your perfectly laid plans have been derailed, it’s difficult to see the point in anything. For those who believe in something bigger than themselves, we typically ask ourselves how God could allow such a thing to happen if he’s really good at all. Death, divorce, abuse, financial ruin – the difficulties take many forms, but the fact remains – we have to find a way through it. And you’re allowed to use the “f-word” if you need to.
This book is about the choice we have when life really hits the fan. If you’re a believer, this book will speak to you about the importance of leaning into your faith when you want to run away from God, not toward him. If you’re not a believer, I still hope you can find comfort in knowing you are not alone in your experience and feelings.
I’m always open to sharing my story and viewpoints with readers. You can find me on IG @the_other_fword.
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